I am a moderator on a fairly large, longstanding dating advice forum that has its roots in online dating, and we do just that sort of thing--we help people spiff up their online profiles and help people gain some perspective. I won't be so rude as to post the URL here without the admin's permission, but if you want it, you can PM me. 
The most common advice we give people is to do the things YOU like to do. If you like cooking, take a class. Biking? Join a bike club. Skiing? You got it. Always wanted to learn to scuba dive? There's no time like the present. What have you always wanted to do? It's a great way to have fun, expand your horizons, and meet like-minded people (yes, some of them women) at the same time.
The most common advice we give people is to do the things YOU like to do. If you like cooking, take a class. Biking? Join a bike club. Skiing? You got it. Always wanted to learn to scuba dive? There's no time like the present. What have you always wanted to do? It's a great way to have fun, expand your horizons, and meet like-minded people (yes, some of them women) at the same time.
