I have been trying to get my wife to take advantage of it but so far she just wants to tag along with me without the gun that I bought for her to use.![]()
NJ used to participate in the BOW program. Unfortunately the last program was held in 2008.
https://www.nj.gov/dep/fgw/bow000.htm
https://www.uwsp.edu/cnr-ap/bow/Pages/default.aspx
Central Jersey Rifle & Pistol club holds a very good woman's program each year. Wifey has attended a couple of times.
http://www.cjrpc.org/wot/index.cfm

Might want to adjust the sights a little.My wife is not a fan of the long gun either, prefers her Walther at the range and has become quite proficient with it.![]()

This year's NJ Hunting and Trapping Digest has an article (pg 76-77) about getting your kids interested in hunting. Written by a dad who is also a hunter and state biologist. I don't know anything about the subject, but it seems well written and full of good advice. (It a picture of the author hunting with his 15-month old son riding in his backpack, then 11 years later the same boy as a youth hunter.)
