Personally, I couldn't care less what my obituary says, because I'll be dead.
My step Dad is Irish,American Irish but apparently still hold some Irish traditions.At every family funeral they hold a wake and party around the corpse.I haven';t been to one but Mom has told me about it.Any excuse to drink and that family is happy.My step dad isn't a big drinker but the rest of the family are.
I do agree the modern laws on what you must have to bury a person are a crock and so is the price of funerals and such but I don't favor cremation.In history burning a body was mostly a sign of disrespect. Soetimes it was necessary in times of famine and pestilence to get rid of bodies that couldn;t be buried fast enough to prevent more disease. I agree it is cheaper but I don't like it.I do agree with the Jewish practice of not embalming the body and just getting it underground before sundown if possible.I don't understand why people want to embalm and freeze a corpse for a week before having a funeral.It's a money racket.I have never seen a corpse treated as such thjat had any resemblance to the living person.The person is not there.get it in the ground. I really don't care whats done with this hunk of meat once I"m out of it and if it's going to financially wipe my family out then if they want to burn me then go ahead.It's just ashame that the laws almost force you treat the body of your erstwhile loved ones like that or go into debt till you die yourself.It's disgusting.Why spend big money on a funeral/casket etc? My family favors cremation; we scattered Dad's ashes in Hereford Inlet.
I want any undesignated money I might leave behind used to throw a party for my friends where they tell stories about me. With bourbon.
In history burning a body was mostly a sign of disrespect.
It depends on whose history I kinda like the way my ancestors took care of things, but I think my family might be arrested if they tried it for me.
Are swedes Vikings as well?
No, but like Al, I have had trigger finger a few times on my left hand. I used popsicle sticks taped to the fingers as a splint to keep them straight and it disappeared on it own.Unrelated to burials but did anyone in your family ever have Dupuytren's Disease 46er ?
If I had of known that I"d of tried it.I have had carpal tunnel in both hands as well and the operations fixed them,only operation I have had that has back fired is the one trigger finger and the detached retina in my right eye,I am not partailly blind in that eye,they fixed the retina but several months later a bad case of the flu screwed it up again and now I have a fizzy football in the center of my vision in that eye.Can see good enough to get out of the woods with it if my left eye was injured and even drive with it in day light on country roads that i know but can't read with it except a few letters at a time.I have a clear pin hole in the center of it.No, but like Al, I have had trigger finger a few times on my left hand. I used popsicle sticks taped to the fingers as a splint to keep them straight and it disappeared on it own.