Wow! Lots of excellent responses here so I am going to reply back in one post. Thank you, everyone, for your fantastic feedback!
Okay, my grandmother was Viola SMITH (married Nelson REED of Millville). Her parents were George SMITH (son of Jesse SMITH & Sarah Matilda MATTOX) and Susan/Susanna FORD.
Now Susanna FORD'S parents were Joseph FORD (son of David "Fiddler" FORD and Susan/Susanna NICHOLS) and Elizabeth HARRIS (GANDY?). Confusion on Elizabeth...her marriage record states her maiden name was HARRIS (father Charles, mother Sarah), but her daughter states on her own record of marriage that mother's maiden name was GANDY.
Things get twisted... Sometime after 1895 Joseph FORD and Elizabeth split up, both claiming to be "widowed" on later census records. Elizabeth became the "housekeeper" of a Charles PARSONS, but family lore states she was more than a housekeeper. Her daughter Susan/Susanna married, at age 12, Elmer PARSONS, son of Charles. They had children together, most of whom were taken away by the state. They split up but not divorce, as far as I can tell, but regardless of this Susan then married George SMITH, my great-grandfather. He adopted as his own her son by Elmer PARSONS. Now, throw into the mix a man named Ellsworth CLARK, who also had a relationship with Susan, and some in the family declare that Theodore was NOT Elmer's son, but Ellsworth's. The story gets more twisted... sometime after 1914 Susan and George split up and Susan again became involved with Ellsworth CLARK, who impregnated her (again?) and this child died before 1925. Susan died in 1926, death record states Scarlet Fever, but my grandmother and her sisters always claimed it was suicide, which they witnessed. They said that their mother was yet again pregnant (by Ellsworth CLARK) while suffering from Scarlet Fever and decided she was tired of living and having kids, so she overdosed on the Iodine the doctor provided to relieve the Scarlet Fever. Ellsworth CLARK was the informant on her death certificate.
Interesting enough, Jesse SMITH, father of the above mentioned George, was born at Doughty's Tavern, but I didn't know if this was an actual place or if he was born IN the tavern!
I know, I know, its all a bit tawdry, convoluted and twisted, but hopefully all the connections between the different families will lead to the answer, LOL!