This is the most important question to ask yourself Wolfspider. It is not an easy one to answer sometimes.
Ditto. I'm still trying to figure out what I want to do when I grow up! I went to community college for 3 years and studied for about half of those because I had a fast car, a 4x4, (it didn't hurt that "expensive" gas was $1.05 then) and a full time job that paid relatively well for an 18 year old kid already. I worked 50 hours a week, partied the weekends away, and went to class occasionally until I realized I was 20 and not really close to a degree in anything. Anyway, I managed to study my tail off my last year and a semester and bumped my GPA to a 2.6. I transferred to a small school in North Jersey and decided to major in history education. History was the only thing I ever enjoyed in high school, so I went for it and found out that once I started studying something I enjoyed it was doable. I managed to make Dean's list my first semester there since I started fresh and my old GPA was wiped out.
Anyway, I picked up a political science minor along the way and got accepted to a program which allowed me to go to Washington D.C. (American University) for a semester and study/intern on Capitol Hill. The political bug bit me and I wasn't that interested in teaching anymore, but I still finished my degree program. When I got out I decided to look for a political job and I ended up working for the same Congressman I interned in D.C. for albeit in his district office here in New Jersey. I'm happy where I'm at now and I'm making decent money, but I want to do something in the area of transportation policy eventually-maybe work for the Turnpike Authority, NJ Transit, The Port Authority, etc... Lord knows this state needs help in managing moving people around, minimizing sprawl, and preserving what's left. It's a pretty exciting business to be in if you're like me and you watch "Modern Marvels" on the History Channel religiously.
To be honest though if I had my pick of professions I'd rather be a farmer, but its not an easy way to make a living in this state. I'm hoping to one day be able to buy a modest amount of acreage to start a small farm as a side business. Anyway, the point of all this is to just show you that you really need to think about what makes you feel fullfilled (notice I didn't say happy), and how you can make money doing it. I think trying to find something that makes you happy is impossible-nobody is ever truly happy at work! There are days when I don't feel like getting out of bed because I know I have so much crap sitting on my desk, days where I want to throw the phone/computer/etc...at the wall...but when I know that I had a small part in helping my boss pass a piece of legislation, help a WWII vet get the medals he earned but never received, or nominate a deserving kid for appointment to a service academy-THAT is fullfilling.
Just a thought-you have mechanical experience and you're willing to go to school-have you ever thought about becoming a mechanic? Not the brake and tire type, but an ASE Certified Master Tech? The guys who work at the dealerships make REALLY good money. If you're a real go-getter and you've got a good head on your shoulders you could make Service Manager and make some serious cash. Cars only get more complicated and dealerships need competent people who are willing to work on them and go to school year after year to learn about what's coming next. Also, I see you have a BMW "M" series engine as your avatar. Trust me-many times the guys who work on BMWs at the dealership make more than the people bringing them in for service!